Every time you smile, I smile,And every time you shine, I shine. And every time you’re here, baby, I’ll show you, I’ll show you, you can jump then fall.
In life, you know that there are always people, people whom you can jump and fall on to.
Lie A lie (also called prevarication), is a type of deception in the form of an untruthful statement, especially with the intention to deceive others, often with the further intention to maintain a secret or reputation, protect someone's feelings or to avoid a punishment. ...
White lie A white lie would cause only relatively minor discord if it were uncovered, and typically offers some benefit to the hearer. White lies are often used to avoid offense, such as complimenting something one finds unattractive. In this case, the lie is told to avoid the harmful realistic implications of the truth. As a concept, it is largely defined by local custom and cannot be clearly separated from other lies with any authority.
from wiki
So now...the question is... Do you think that a white lie is acceptable? the act of lying, be it a real LIE or a white LIE, ultimately, they are still LIES.
The difference that it actually makes? One's own conscience.
Case Study: Say...I have a friend, X. and One day...he told Person A something...then next he went on to tell Person B something else and said that what X told A was just to make A happy(white lie). But have you ever wondered? That B could be the one who had fallen for the white lie("made happy") instead? or rather, they could be a Person C, Person D.... and the list goes on too?
If one could lie to another today, what makes you think you cant be the next tomorrow?
So..What do you think? Is white lie acceptable to you?
Would you be able to accept your child if he is intellectually challeneged... Would you be able to embrace him and do everything to let him be happy and let him live a dependant yet happy life, in his own world
Or would you try to deny the facts and try in every other ways to try to make him just as intellect as any other child and let him be more independent, yet stressful, in this world
As of now... I wouldnt be able to give an answer...
Life
Sometimes... life is just so simple afterall... like what i learnt from "Understanding relationship", our 2 ultimate goals are still "Surviving" and "Reproducing", without any of these, human would extinct. But what makes this process difficult and complicated... its the interaction between human and human. If you are the only person in the world, many things would have been much simpler.
Trust
Its easy to be trusted Even easier to lose trust but Hardest to earn it back
Apologies
If i had ever hurt anyone unconciously/unknowingly, I am really sorry.
Welcome to HMS LAC 2009 - Where PEACE vv is a common thing
kay yong ||
Wednesday, October 21, 2009 ||
8:59 AM
One Day Out
OHAYOU
Long time no see....
Today was a fun cool fun nice fun happy fun day One day after HMS LAC Pre-Camp It was HMS EXCO outing
What was done was basically Badminton (cancelled) Bowling Swimming
The morning started off with eating breakfast at LOT ONE foodcourt... I had a chicken shredded hor fan followed by a ICED MANGE W/ ICE CREAM!
After that went bowling... OMG... TALENT is spelt as "KAY YONG" now... My score was on par with Wayne for the FIRST GAME(only the first) even though with my so little playing experience....BUT GRRRRRRR... we play a total of 3 games... and the last game was a BET... the losing team had to treat the other team drinks... EVIL WAYNE KNEW THAT MY HAND WAS TIRED SO HE PURPOSELY PROPOSED THIS. and yea... my team lost :( But one thing we learnt from this last game... EXCOs ARE THIRSTY PEOPLE! the moment this bet was made...the score SOAR HIGH UP... EVEN HIGHER THan the sky that it nearly reached heaven.
Next comes swimming... the first thing we saw before going to swim was the "no TEE SHIRT sign" and TADA! thats it for the girls... but no fear... after going through LAC precamp... we were much more adventurous and decided to just go in and try... and YES...as you might have guess... we, or rather, they were caught. but the kind life guard allowed us to play one more round around the lazy area... So just before completing that round...we went on "shore" and discussed about our plans[actually its just the girls...i dont have much rights D:] then after a LONG while of discussion... one of the life guard saw us and give us one chance and allowed us to play for the day.. but of cos..the next time we go... have to remember to Tee shirts....
PLAYINg with water was LOL. Cassandra's actions..TOTALLY and i mean TOTALLY reminded me of JunHao and JunJie (two pri 3 kids whom i play with)... She was like "HIAR! HIAR! HIAR!" as she splashed the water and she even used the legendary "XIANG LONG SHI BA ZHANG!"
For a moment... i nearly NEARLYplayed together with her... but heng...never spoil image! HAHAHA!!! OMG...lucky she was same age..if she was younger i think i would have joined in already XD
and and...Jasmine said that I have 4PACKS! WOOOOO HAHAHAHA.... not only "TALENTED" is spelt as "KAY YONG" but even "FIT" is spelt as "KAY YONG" now
After a long day of exercise... its finally DINNER TIME!!!
but sadly...Jasmine was going home for dinner and not joining us :( :( :(
Then we took the bus to JP where we are going to have dinner... though i was seated further from the others(and was sleeping alone)... my ear sensed that someone mentioned my name and i was expecting them to scare me once it reach... but LUCKILY... one kind uncle wake me up at just before i reached the interchange...so it was SAFE!
We walked around JP hunting for food...and Tecky came to join us after he finished his long day of work... we went to DING TAI FENG to eat... my first time eating there...and we had XIAO LONG BAO too...my first time eating it... Ibroke my first XIAO LONG BAO and the soup spilled off.. but with "TALENTED" spelt as "KAYYONG", I was able to eat my second XIAO LONG BAO without any spilling! WOOT!!
Then after that go home... First thing was on laptop then my brother was "last game..." and DING DONG DING DONG... i went and play...halfway while playing my father came in and asked..."havent bath arh?" I was like...erm...bathed already just now outside.. omg...its such a stupid lie..i can tell that my father know it but was just too lazy and tired to scold me thats all... but HAHAHA..NVM... just continue playing... but acutally hor...I wasnt lying too...I BATHED after the swim...
So...thats about all for the day... or maybe...just a brief summary... hands are too tired to type more actually....
CIAO! Think next blog will be after camp already!!!
Read this post to find out how www.limkayyong.sg have been living his past week :D
Starting from the first few days of holidays...
Saturday! - I took my first step and went to start to prepare to learn driving. Went to BBDC to register but TOOK a long time to think if to register under school or private candidate...and AFTER A LOOOOONG TIME... Finally! its decided! I applied as a school candidate :D And many thanks to Jason for bringing me there and accompanying me throughout the whole process (and watching me calling so many people to ask if private or school is a better choice XD)
Sunday -Went for briefing and then wait for Jason to finish his prac lesson before heading back... and I suggest going to Tiong to EAT...and GUESS WHAT WAS FOR LUNCH!? Its the NEW STALL, LOCATED at OLD SAKAE! and the name of the new still is.......... EIGHTEEN CHEFS! HAHAHA I even though i went to the Simei outlet before but because the ordering form is different...I didnt know how to write and had to ask the person to teach XD
MONDAY -I think stayed at home...couldnt really remember what happened... and then brought my brother to TIONG to try out EIGHTEEN CHEFS!
TUESDAY - Went to school to settle some stuffs and then went home... LinFang and Jason was at my house playing and treasuring Jason second last day before he goes into army...
Wednesday - Went to bugis to have lunch then went home
Thursday - Had lessons as usual
AND.. FINALLY! TODAY! FRIDAY!
FRIDAY - Went to BBDC to attend my 2 basic theory lessons... and then went home... and quickly CHIONG TO BOOK MY BTT! WOOT and lucky little me...managed to get the last slot for 2nd Oct... though its 9am.... but no choice since I have camps on the other days....
